An intimate relationship with a spirit can be extraordinary. It can also be complicated, demanding, deeply challenging and, at times, profoundly lonely.
Whether your relationship is newly established or has been part of your life for decades, you may find yourself navigating circumstances for which there is very little guidance or support available.
I offer specialist mentoring to help you navigate the realities of loving, connecting with and building a shared life with a partner across the veil.
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Navigating love, intimacy and partnership across the veil
What can you expect from me and what does the work require from you?
Who is This For?
This service is for people who are already in a romantic, intimate or sexual relationship with a spirit, whether newly established or longstanding.
My work focuses on partnerships in which love, intimacy and the shared life between partners are the foundation of the bond. Spiritual development, ritual, co-creation and personal transformation may be part of that relationship, but they are not its defining purpose. It is foremost about helping two sovereign beings who love one another, build a life together that straddles the veil.
You may be exploring the early stages of your bond, navigating an established spirit marriage, facing difficulties within your relationship, or trying to build a shared life with both an incarnate and a spirit partner.
This is not a matchmaking service. I do not facilitate the formation of intimate spirit relationships or help people find a spirit partner. Nor is this service intended for primarily devotional, ceremonial or spirit-working relationships where intimacy or sexual contact may occur, but the principal purpose of the bond is worship, ritual, magical practice or spiritual development.
Navigating love, intimacy and partnership across the veil
Every spirit relationship is different, and so are the challenges that come with it. There is no prescribed programme or expectation that your relationship should follow a particular model.
Our work is shaped around your individual circumstances and may explore:
Discernment, Communication and Deepening Your Connection
How do you distinguish communication from your spirit partner from your own thoughts, emotions or the presence of another spirit? How can you strengthen your connection and develop greater confidence in your communication?
We explore practical methods of spirit communication, recognising energetic signatures, developing discernment and navigating different forms of contact and intimacy. The focus is on strengthening your ability to communicate and connect directly with your spirit partner, using approaches suited to your individual relationship.
Sovereignty, Consent and Boundaries
How do both partners maintain autonomy within a deeply intimate or symbiotic bond? What happens when boundaries are crossed, you disagree, trust is broken, or the relationship becomes controlling or coercive?
We explore sovereignty, consent, energetic boundaries, jealousy, communication difficulties, manipulation and conflict. Where appropriate, I can teach practical techniques to establish and reinforce spiritual boundaries, while helping you navigate difficult relationship challenges with honesty and accountability.
Understanding Your Relationship
What does partnership mean when one person is incarnate and the other is not? How do you navigate differences in experience, expectations, intimacy and communication? What does symbiosis look like in practice?
We explore the nature of your relationship, the roles you each occupy and how you build a shared life across the veil.
Navigating Polyamory
How do you navigate a marriage or partnership with both an incarnate person and a spirit? What happens when your human partner cannot see, hear or interact with someone who is a constant presence in your life? How do you negotiate sexual intimacy and boundaries when one partner is physically embodied and the other is not?
We explore the particular challenges of relationships that straddle the veil, including disclosure, differing experiences of the spirit partner’s presence, establishing boundaries around shared physical and private spaces, and finding ways for both partners to coexist without either being dismissed or marginalised.
How Mentoring Works
Mentoring is offered on an open-ended basis, with no fixed programme or minimum number of sessions. We work with your circumstances and the challenges you bring, at a pace that suits your needs.
Your spirit partner is welcome to participate through you if you want them to, but I will not establish communications with them directly. I may ask for the spirit partner to step back from specific parts of our conversation as and when appropriate.
I also offer mentoring sessions for you and your incarnate partner, subject to everyone’s agreement. You remain my primary client and I do not offer separate mentoring to your other partners.
Sessions are available online via Zoom, with 60-minute and 90-minute appointments offered.
What can you expect from me and what does the work require from you
What Can You Expect From Me?
I bring lived experience of navigating an intimate spirit relationship and inter-being polyamory, practical spirit-work techniques and a willingness to engage with the complexities of your relationship without judgement or preconceived expectations.
I will listen, ask difficult questions, challenge assumptions and share uncomfortable truths when necessary. I will respect the sovereignty of you and your partner(s), including your right to make decisions I may not agree with.
I will not tell you what your spirit partner thinks or wants, make decisions on your behalf or impose my own relationship model upon yours. My role is to offer perspective, guidance and practical tools while helping you develop confidence in your own judgement.
What Does This Work Require From You?
Honesty, openness and personal responsibility.
You must be willing to examine your own behaviour, question assumptions and acknowledge your part in relationship difficulties, even when doing so is uncomfortable.
You are responsible for maintaining your own boundaries, respecting those of your partner(s) and making decisions about your relationship(s). I can offer guidance and teach practical techniques, but I cannot do that work for you.
Above all, this work requires a willingness to recognise your spirit partner as an autonomous being, with their own needs, preferences, boundaries and right to disagree with you.
Pricing & Booking
Spirit Relationship Mentoring
60-minute session
90-minute session
£50
£80
Spirit Relationship & Incarnate Partner Mentoring
60-minute session
90-minute session
£70
£100
Sessions are available online via Zoom only.
Payment is due in full before each session.
Ready to begin?
All new clients begin with a free, mandatory 30-minute consultation to discuss your circumstances, expectations and mutual compatibility for the service.
Spirit Relationship Mentoring is offered as a mentoring service. It is not psychotherapy, counselling, psychiatric care or any other form of regulated medical or mental health treatment. See my Services Disclaimer for more details.